Aging Through Many Eyes: Culture, Perspective, and Divine Purpose
Blog is written by Carlton L. Coon, Sr.
"You do not get to choose whether you age. You do get to choose how you age."
Aging is a universal journey, but how it's experienced—and valued—varies widely. From Eastern traditions to Western trends, from ancient customs to modern care systems, every culture and discipline offers a different lens. Some see aging as decline; others see it as a sacred season. And theology reminds us: no stage of life is wasted in God’s eyes.
Carlton L. Coon, Author, Co-Pastor, Calvary United Pentecostal Church, Springfield, MO
The Chinese Tradition: Honoring the Aged
“Elders are not just aged—they are honored.”
In Chinese culture, respect for elders is not optional; it’s a deeply embedded virtue. Children are raised with a strong sense of duty to care for their parents emotionally and financially. Elders are viewed as guardians of wisdom and moral authority, and roles in the family are defined by age and respect.
This reverence extends into society as a whole—teachers, leaders, and older community members are to be honored, not ignored.
Native American Wisdom: Elders as Cultural Pillars
“Storytelling is not entertainment; it’s preservation.”
In Native American cultures, elders are the heartbeat of the people. They pass down traditions, preserve values, and tell the stories that shape identity. Far from being sidelined, elders guide decision-making with a long view grounded in tradition and experience.
Their role ensures that younger generations remain deeply rooted in their heritage.
Italian Families: Generations Together
“Family is not fragmented—it is layered.”
Italian family life often includes multiple generations living under one roof. Elders are seen as wise advisors, not burdens. Their stories shape the family’s identity, and their opinions are sought out in matters big and small.
When caregiving is needed, it is shared among relatives, not outsourced. This approach strengthens relationships and sustains cultural continuity.
North America: A Mixed Legacy
“Some are warehoused. Others are woven in.”
In parts of North America, aging can bring invisibility. Older adults are sometimes placed in care homes where dignity and autonomy are overlooked. Yet, many families and communities are shifting this narrative, embracing elders as valuable contributors to life, faith, and family.
There is hope—and change—in the way we honor those who have gone before us.
Personal Reflections: Choosing Our Response
“Life is a ride you can’t opt out of—but you can decide how to ride it.”
Aging is inevitable. Still, how we experience it is deeply personal. Some resent the changes; others find joy in wisdom, perspective, and purpose.
Books may promise youth, but the deeper gift is grace. We don’t control the aging process—but we do control our attitude toward it.
Theological Insights: Aging with Purpose
“There is no season where God is absent.”
The Bible offers a powerful vision of aging—not as decline, but as continued usefulness in God's hands.
Youth: “Let no one despise your youth…” (1 Timothy 4:12)
Middle Age: “Tell your children… and their children…” (Joel 1:3)
Old Age: “They shall still bear fruit in old age…” (Psalm 92:14)
God’s plan spans every generation. From youthful energy to seasoned wisdom, each stage carries a divine calling.
Conclusion: Embracing the Silver Season
Whether you’re viewing aging through cultural, personal, or spiritual eyes, one truth remains: growing older is a gift. In the stories we pass on, the faith we share, and the people we become, aging is a sacred journey—one meant to be honored, not hidden.
"Growing older is not the end of meaning—it’s often where it deepens."
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What’s your cultural or spiritual view on aging? Share in the comments.
Read Psalm 92:14–15 and ask God how He wants to use you—or your elders—in this season of life.
Host a multi-generational gathering—at home, at church, or online—to share stories and build connection.
Journal your own thoughts on aging. What do you fear, value, or hope for as you grow older?
Inspired by this piece? Share it with someone who needs encouragement in this season of life.
This blog is part of Saging Well - the Best is Yet to Be written by Carlton L. Coon Sr. Order the book as an eBook or print at Amazon. 20% of the revenue is donated to UPCI Sages.